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Real Housewives Of Beverly Hills: Adrienne Maloof

Real Housewives Of Beverly Hills: Adrienne Maloof

Last night Bravo premiered the newest installation of their Housewives realty series in Beverly Hills.  If you follow the Housewives series then you know there are other locations such as New York, New Jersey, Atlanta, DC and Orange County.  Admittedly, I follow all of them so I was really excited when the Beverly Hills gals stepped on the scene.

My first reaction to seeing them is that they have quite possibly drained the US supply of Botox.  Their faces were either pulled back taut or pumped so full of fillers that it looked unnatural, sorta like budding cat ladies.

But one woman caught my attention not for how she looked necessarily but for business sense in and outside of her marriage.

Gawker had this to say:

Adrienne Maloof-Nassif: Miracle of Plastic Science

She’s married to Dr. 90210 regular Dr. Paul Nassif and Maloof heiress—the family that owns the Palms, the Sacramento Kings, casinos, banks, and entertainment holdings. Expect her to be completely insane in a way that only the filthy rich and breathtakingly plastic can be.

I love that her family is independently wealthy.  Her hubby is a plastic surgeon so I’m sure he is wealthy in his own right but on these series you don’t have too many women who are independently wealthy outside of their husbands.  You don’t hear that being discussed much at all.  I’m impressed!

She also goes on to mention that she keeps everything separate from her husband, that is they don’t mingle money.  I thought that was interesting as well.  But then you listen to her further and you realize that it is a family business and given the temperamental nature of Beverly Hills/Hollywood marriages she wants to spare herself the drama should divorce be put on the table.

I love it!  I think more women should be thinking like her because if you spend more than a generation building your family’s wealth and probably realize that your marriage could take a hit, you definitely don’t want the business to become a casualty.

I know that it’s hard to think of it this way but I generally tend to look at marriage outside of love as a business.

1969 Inc., said it best when asked for her insights to marriage,

It’s like running a corporation. A business venture. You have to go into it knowing that it could fail or it could succeed beyond your wildest dreams and make you rich… If the employees don’t share the vision, believe in the vision and work together, the endeavor will fail. Some businesses will get rich. Some will barely make ends meet. Some will never make a dime. The money does not measure success. The sense of accomplishment will come from the daily struggle… the love of what you do, working together day in and day out.

If you were in Adrienne’s position, would you keep your finances separate and/or have him sign a prenup/postnup? Why or Why Not?

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  • lovelife

    Love adrienne attitude & her zest for physically being able to protect herself. Most times bodyguards are not enough! Keeping their money seperate is the best thing. I was married & so glad HE insisted on seperate plus he paid household bills. He had horrible credit & was cheating. Throughout the marriage I was able to keep my superior credit rating and saving every dime… After the divorce, I bought a house with a Huge down payment. Hats off to Adrienne and all the money making women who refuse to be blind by love…..

  • HappliyMarried

    We merged our finances as we went along. This is because we wanted my wife to be able to raise our children. She has separate credit cards, in order to maintain her own credit rating, and some small bank accounts from her jobs. I have kept my business accounts separate, in order to simplify the year-end accounting and tax filing. We’ve been happily married for nearly 21 years and 3 children.

  • Ned

    i absolutely loved adrienne on the show. i want to be just like her. smart, independent and financially savvy and secure. I would definitely keep finances separate. Even if my partner had more money than myself, in the event of a divorce – I wouldn't want any of his money.

  • moetandmacaroons

    I would have a joint account for home things and maintain my independent accounts. If the light bill needs paid, he has that. If I want a new Louie V, no need to dicuss it with the hubbers, I just buy it. Done and Done.

  • Babette

    The sad truth is that so many "men" these days are looking for a woman who will support them emotionally AND financially. I got suckered into marrying a lying p.o.s. who tricked me, when I was a foolish 22yr old w/ a condo & a good job. Luckily I got rid of him as soon as he landed a decent job (which he lost ultimately). Rather than look for another job, the lazy p.o.s. sat around on unemployment for a year, ending up with a DUI and basically threw away or lost everything he ever stole from me.

    • Celena

      Babette-I love ur post!!!

  • cheryl pschirer

    based on the last segment of beverly hills housewives i get the impression that adrienne is not happy with her husbands profession, i detect criticism on her part. she is hoping he will turn into a BUSINESSMAN. she has no idea what is involved in the medical profession. she could not even pronounce stethoscope. i am a nurse and i know what i had to go through to get my degree—he is a surgeon which is a far more respected profession than Ihave . ONE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR PATIENT'S LIVES. A BIG DIFFERENCE FROM BEING A BUSINESSMAN! ONE CANNOT COVER UP THEIR MISTAKES!

    • Lani

      woopeee a Nurse real parallel to becoming a Cosmetic surgeon…. from this posting I'm detecting you want to be a psychologist and analyze other people's lives…

    • Ryann

      She was talking about her little sons and wanting them to become businessmen, not wanting her husband to give up his profession.

  • TINA M

    I THINK ADRIENNE IS VERY GROUNDED AND REAL INSPITE OF HER PLASTIC ON HER BODY. I THINK WHEN SOMEONE IS A WEALTHY AS SHE IS AND MARRIAGE COMES INTO THE PICTURE, SEPARATE FINANCES IS THE ONLY WAY TO GO. IT ALSO TELLS YOU IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU, OR WAS HE ORIGINALLY IN LOVE WITH YOUR MONEY? SHE IS A VERY SMART WOMAN. I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT HER.

  • missmajestic

    If I was in her situation as far as family wealth, I would have this in my marriage contract (I'm Muslim) that a husband wouldn't be able to get it in the event of a divorce. If I were married I would like to have a joint account for joint household expenses. But IMO keeping everything separate would be more trouble than its worth. I would like to see how the truly keep everything separate. When they eat out, they go dutch? Do they alternate paying for groceries? I'm sure these are miniscule expenses for a couple that wealthy but if you are truly joined, I don't see how you keep everything separate.

  • http://www.dogatemyfinances.com dogatemyfinances

    Wow, I think that is about the saddest thing I have ever heard. The whole point of a joint venture is that you split when it goes south. For me, the whole point of marriage is for richer or poorer. Your spouse is NOT your business partner and you don't split when it goes south.

    I mean, why don't these people just sign a sexual fidelity contract? Isn't that all they did?

  • http://www.diaryofamadfreelancer.com P.S. Jones

    My husband and I maintain separate accounts because it's easy and we have a joint account for household expenses. We put money into our joint account and pull from there. But having separate accounts isn't the same as keeping things "separate." In most states, regardless of if he has access to your account or not, he still has communal property rights over that money. Pre-nups and post-nups AREN'T dirty words. Especially if you really want your stuff to be separate.

  • faithmight

    I'm not in Adrienne's position as far as generational wealth and I am doing the exact same thing. Keep the finances separate. We help one another: if I ask for money or if he asks me but automatic joint accounts just because we said "I do" is insane. It ought to be for a valid business reason and not because that's what our parents did or is "expected".

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