Comments on: Do I Stay or Go? One Woman’s Struggle To Step Out On Her Own (Video) http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/2009/01/do-i-stay-or-go-one-womans-struggle-to-step-out-on-her-own-video/ Breaking Financial Ceilings One Stiletto At A Time! Mon, 15 Mar 2010 11:22:21 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: calcium vitamins http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/2009/01/do-i-stay-or-go-one-womans-struggle-to-step-out-on-her-own-video/comment-page-1/#comment-4499 calcium vitamins Thu, 10 Dec 2009 01:03:15 +0000 http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/?p=1011#comment-4499 respect to autor respect to autor

]]> By: Chat http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/2009/01/do-i-stay-or-go-one-womans-struggle-to-step-out-on-her-own-video/comment-page-1/#comment-4295 Chat Mon, 12 Oct 2009 12:03:02 +0000 http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/?p=1011#comment-4295 Nice comment and participate with you in to discuss topics I would like to talk to you greetings Nice comment and participate with you in to discuss topics I would like to talk to you greetings

]]> By: Wilson http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/2009/01/do-i-stay-or-go-one-womans-struggle-to-step-out-on-her-own-video/comment-page-1/#comment-3732 Wilson Tue, 18 Aug 2009 23:40:16 +0000 http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/?p=1011#comment-3732 she needs to leave now. control is right before physical abuse. she needs to start building a life for herself and her child. she should apply to college and seek a school that has family housing. she needs to leave now. control is right before physical abuse. she needs to start building a life for herself and her child. she should apply to college and seek a school that has family housing.

]]> By: Kat http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/2009/01/do-i-stay-or-go-one-womans-struggle-to-step-out-on-her-own-video/comment-page-1/#comment-3729 Kat Tue, 18 Aug 2009 23:22:25 +0000 http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/?p=1011#comment-3729 CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS POST................He controls the money so I can not save to get out and he doesn't want our daughter in daycare either. He wants me here. I want to pursue a career. My life seems like a never ending cycle. I see and talk to friends and they have these great careers and lives. I do not love him anymore. It has gotten so bad that I sleep under a seperate comforter at night. This is just because if I were to ever tell him my feelings I would be thrown out into the street. I have no family to rely on and I never had. Can anyone give me advice on how I can entire the workforce again with today's economy considering I only have a high school education...and possibly be able to go back to school. I just wanna be happy and in love someday!!!! Thanks in advance, Kat CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS POST…………….He controls the money so I can not save to get out and he doesn't want our daughter in daycare either. He wants me here. I want to pursue a career. My life seems like a never ending cycle. I see and talk to friends and they have these great careers and lives. I do not love him anymore. It has gotten so bad that I sleep under a seperate comforter at night. This is just because if I were to ever tell him my feelings I would be thrown out into the street. I have no family to rely on and I never had. Can anyone give me advice on how I can entire the workforce again with today's economy considering I only have a high school education…and possibly be able to go back to school. I just wanna be happy and in love someday!!!! Thanks in advance, Kat

]]> By: Kat http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/2009/01/do-i-stay-or-go-one-womans-struggle-to-step-out-on-her-own-video/comment-page-1/#comment-3728 Kat Tue, 18 Aug 2009 23:21:45 +0000 http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/?p=1011#comment-3728 I'm not in an abusive relationship, but it is verbal and getting worse. I graduated from high school in 1998. I worked until 2002 in administrative/clerical work. I met my boyfriend/fiance' and then i had my daughter in 2007. I have stayed at home and we traveled with his job. Things are sooo different now. I went back to school online and had to quit because he said I couldn't take care of our child and go to school. Now I have almost $2000.00 I have to pay back. The land and home is in his name, but we acquired them both while we were together and even after our daughter's birth. I'm not in an abusive relationship, but it is verbal and getting worse. I graduated from high school in 1998. I worked until 2002 in administrative/clerical work. I met my boyfriend/fiance' and then i had my daughter in 2007. I have stayed at home and we traveled with his job. Things are sooo different now. I went back to school online and had to quit because he said I couldn't take care of our child and go to school. Now I have almost $2000.00 I have to pay back. The land and home is in his name, but we acquired them both while we were together and even after our daughter's birth.

]]> By: Lonely and lost http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/2009/01/do-i-stay-or-go-one-womans-struggle-to-step-out-on-her-own-video/comment-page-1/#comment-2434 Lonely and lost Tue, 27 Jan 2009 18:24:57 +0000 http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/?p=1011#comment-2434 Ok I know that getting out is deffinatlly a yes! But the rpoblem for womaen like me is when we have no way of getting any kind of income to save because everything you do is dependent on your husband and he controls everything. Wanting to walk out with your children and have it be easy is a dream, i cannot take them to a shelter with me because then i get accused of not providing good for them, it's already hapened once. I cannot leav them with him for a while either because first i would never abandon my kids ever! 2nd he doesn't even know a thing about taking care of them and 3rd thy are old enough that they both beg me never to leave without them, they ahte their father, sad to say but true. he is not physically abusive in anyway, he is mentally abusive and controls all i do. So my question is where do i turn now? How do i get out with no income or any way of getting any?? Ok I know that getting out is deffinatlly a yes! But the rpoblem for womaen like me is when we have no way of getting any kind of income to save because everything you do is dependent on your husband and he controls everything. Wanting to walk out with your children and have it be easy is a dream, i cannot take them to a shelter with me because then i get accused of not providing good for them, it's already hapened once. I cannot leav them with him for a while either because first i would never abandon my kids ever! 2nd he doesn't even know a thing about taking care of them and 3rd thy are old enough that they both beg me never to leave without them, they ahte their father, sad to say but true. he is not physically abusive in anyway, he is mentally abusive and controls all i do. So my question is where do i turn now? How do i get out with no income or any way of getting any??

]]> By: NoMoreSugarDaddies http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/2009/01/do-i-stay-or-go-one-womans-struggle-to-step-out-on-her-own-video/comment-page-1/#comment-2344 NoMoreSugarDaddies Tue, 06 Jan 2009 12:40:40 +0000 http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/?p=1011#comment-2344 Staying in bad relationship was not an option for me. Though I depnded on him financially for the last year i made sure to SAVE every penny that didn't go towards my bills and set up a "freedom fund" savings account online. When the time came I had more than enough money to get out without having to wonder where I would go or how I would eat. Staying in bad relationship was not an option for me. Though I depnded on him financially for the last year i made sure to SAVE every penny that didn't go towards my bills and set up a "freedom fund" savings account online. When the time came I had more than enough money to get out without having to wonder where I would go or how I would eat.

]]> By: tanyetta http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/2009/01/do-i-stay-or-go-one-womans-struggle-to-step-out-on-her-own-video/comment-page-1/#comment-2342 tanyetta Mon, 05 Jan 2009 08:40:06 +0000 http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/?p=1011#comment-2342 The bathroom scene was HILARIOUS!!! I've never heard of that movie. Maybe I need to check it out. Very interesting. I want to see what led up to all of that VIOLENCE ;) As far as starting over, I am a very resourceful woman, if faced with the choice, I know for sure I could make it. Hopefully I'll never be faced with this choice. I got married once for a reason. The bathroom scene was HILARIOUS!!! I've never heard of that movie. Maybe I need to check it out. Very interesting. I want to see what led up to all of that VIOLENCE ;)

As far as starting over, I am a very resourceful woman, if faced with the choice, I know for sure I could make it. Hopefully I'll never be faced with this choice. I got married once for a reason.

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