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	<title>Comments on: Open Discussion:  Professional Women Losing Their Identities After Baby</title>
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		<title>By: deram42</title>
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		<dc:creator>deram42</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 14:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
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Hello Everyone, I&#039;m a wife and a mother of three children. I&#039;ve always had the go get it personality and drive. I worked a job since I was sixteen years old. I wouldn&#039;t feel right if I didn&#039;t have a job or somethig to do. I met my husband in college in 1996. To this very day we are furthering our education and building our business. I&#039;m truly blessed to have a man that respect me as a working woman and a nuturing mother. &lt;a href=&quot;http:\/\/www.sogutmabuyusu.net&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;So?utma B&#252;y&#252;s&#252;&lt;/a&gt; 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Everyone, I&#039;m a wife and a mother of three children. I&#039;ve always had the go get it personality and drive. I worked a job since I was sixteen years old. I wouldn&#039;t feel right if I didn&#039;t have a job or somethig to do. I met my husband in college in 1996. To this very day we are furthering our education and building our business. I&#039;m truly blessed to have a man that respect me as a working woman and a nuturing mother. <a href="http:\/\/www.sogutmabuyusu.net" target="_blank">So?utma B&uuml;y&uuml;s&uuml;</a></p>
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		<title>By: Mellony Morris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mellony Morris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 May 2010 02:28:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Everyone, I&#039;m a wife and a mother of three children. I&#039;ve always had the go get it personality and drive. I worked a job since I was sixteen years old. I wouldn&#039;t feel right if I didn&#039;t have a job or somethig to do. I met my husband in college in 1996. To this very day we are furthering our education and building our business. I&#039;m truly blessed to have a man that respect me as a working woman and a nuturing mother.  
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Everyone, I&#039;m a wife and a mother of three children. I&#039;ve always had the go get it personality and drive. I worked a job since I was sixteen years old. I wouldn&#039;t feel right if I didn&#039;t have a job or somethig to do. I met my husband in college in 1996. To this very day we are furthering our education and building our business. I&#039;m truly blessed to have a man that respect me as a working woman and a nuturing mother.</p>
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		<title>By: ABerry</title>
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		<dc:creator>ABerry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Apr 2010 21:18:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is such an interesting discussion!  In case anyone is interested in a blog that deals with these issues, I would recommend checking out 
 &lt;a href=&quot;http://blog.greensherpa.com/index.php/tips-and-tricks/thank-god-it%E2%80%99s-pms/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;http://blog.greensherpa.com/index.php/tips-and-tr...&lt;/a&gt; </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is such an interesting discussion!  In case anyone is interested in a blog that deals with these issues, I would recommend checking out<br />
 <a href="http://blog.greensherpa.com/index.php/tips-and-tricks/thank-god-it%E2%80%99s-pms/" target="_blank"></a><a href="http://blog.greensherpa.com/index.php/tips-and-tr.." rel="nofollow">http://blog.greensherpa.com/index.php/tips-and-tr..</a>.</p>
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		<title>By: pyjamas</title>
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		<dc:creator>pyjamas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 15:03:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Professional Women (&lt;a href=&quot;http://pyjamabottoms.co.uk/womens-pyjamas.html&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;womens pyjamas&lt;/a&gt;) is a professional and industry network for women in over 100 countries, sees itself as a global voice for working women and equal opportunity as a forum for mutual support and international networking. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Professional Women (<a href="http://pyjamabottoms.co.uk/womens-pyjamas.html" target="_blank">womens pyjamas</a>) is a professional and industry network for women in over 100 countries, sees itself as a global voice for working women and equal opportunity as a forum for mutual support and international networking.</p>
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		<title>By: working mum</title>
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		<dc:creator>working mum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 12:34:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>(continued from above) As for all those woman putting off having kids because of their precious careers.... I promise that there is life outside of work.... you might just be surprised to see that it takes three times the skills to be a full time mom than to be a full time working person. hats off to all the women in the world who choose to be full time moms - you do a fantastic job. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(continued from above) As for all those woman putting off having kids because of their precious careers&#8230;. I promise that there is life outside of work&#8230;. you might just be surprised to see that it takes three times the skills to be a full time mom than to be a full time working person. hats off to all the women in the world who choose to be full time moms &#8211; you do a fantastic job.</p>
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		<title>By: working mum</title>
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		<dc:creator>working mum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 12:33:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>(continued from above) Of course my salary is also half of what it used to be - making working extra hours even less desirable. after childcare is paid from my salary, there is a meagre amount left. - i have come to the conclusion that the only reason that i choose to go to work is to keep myself from going insane at home. i also feel that i cant give my children all the stimulation at home that they get at the childcare centre - so, happy to pay for that. however- at the end of the day, I am not striving to be the most hardworking and loyal person there is for my firm - I just want to do a decent day&#039;s job, and go home at a decent time, without feeling that the world is resting on my shoulders at work - since it is already the case at home. i just want to keep up my personal development, and keep intouch with work issues while my kids are growing up- so that when the time is right for me, that I can focus a bit more on work if I choose to.  
 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>(continued from above) Of course my salary is also half of what it used to be &#8211; making working extra hours even less desirable. after childcare is paid from my salary, there is a meagre amount left. &#8211; i have come to the conclusion that the only reason that i choose to go to work is to keep myself from going insane at home. i also feel that i cant give my children all the stimulation at home that they get at the childcare centre &#8211; so, happy to pay for that. however- at the end of the day, I am not striving to be the most hardworking and loyal person there is for my firm &#8211; I just want to do a decent day&#039;s job, and go home at a decent time, without feeling that the world is resting on my shoulders at work &#8211; since it is already the case at home. i just want to keep up my personal development, and keep intouch with work issues while my kids are growing up- so that when the time is right for me, that I can focus a bit more on work if I choose to.</p>
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		<title>By: working mum</title>
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		<dc:creator>working mum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 12:32:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi-I&#039;ve read the above, and I am a mom. A mom of a  two little boys -21 months and 5 months. 
I am a chartered accountant. I am getting ready to go back to work in 3 weeks, and must admit that I am quite confused and find it difficult to try and get back my identity after having kids.  
 
After going back to work from my first baby&#039;s maternity leave, I went back to work for a couple of days a week. Obviously having to leave earlier than the rest to pick up my child from daycare is what started the feelings of not being perceived as a teamplayer. everyone else works late or extra hours, and generally I just dont choose to do that. when i get home and get the kids to bed, I am exhausted, and not feeling like starting to read up on work issues.  
 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi-I&#039;ve read the above, and I am a mom. A mom of a  two little boys -21 months and 5 months.<br />
I am a chartered accountant. I am getting ready to go back to work in 3 weeks, and must admit that I am quite confused and find it difficult to try and get back my identity after having kids.  </p>
<p>After going back to work from my first baby&#039;s maternity leave, I went back to work for a couple of days a week. Obviously having to leave earlier than the rest to pick up my child from daycare is what started the feelings of not being perceived as a teamplayer. everyone else works late or extra hours, and generally I just dont choose to do that. when i get home and get the kids to bed, I am exhausted, and not feeling like starting to read up on work issues.</p>
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		<title>By: klaratussen</title>
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		<dc:creator>klaratussen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 10:39:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Everybody,

It is very nice to land here. It is a great forum

&lt;a href=&quot;http://quizilla.teennick.com/stories/15770558/alli-as-diet&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;big ass&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Everybody,</p>
<p>It is very nice to land here. It is a great forum</p>
<p><a href="http://quizilla.teennick.com/stories/15770558/alli-as-diet" rel="nofollow">big ass</a></p>
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		<title>By: Social articles</title>
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		<dc:creator>Social articles</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 13:35:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know many married women having children. Many of them are senior officers. They perform their responsiblies with confidence until they grow aged.   </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know many married women having children. Many of them are senior officers. They perform their responsiblies with confidence until they grow aged.</p>
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		<title>By: Ginger</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ginger</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 13:50:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ StarL  It&#039;s interesting that you bring up the issue of being ridiculed bc your decision to teach.  I am considering opening up a holistic Montessori program/preschool/daycare because it&#039;s something I have always ALWAYS wanted to be involved in.  But I didnt want to become a teacher because it doesnt pay well and because of potential scrutiny of that decision.

And this statement was especially on point:  &lt;i&gt;&quot;As for society, I think we should educate society to be more respectful, tolerant and accepting about the changes that human beings, (women in particular) go through&quot;&lt;/i&gt;

&lt;em&gt;Ginger&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/2008/10/gas-prices-are-down-but-are-they-tied-to-the-elections/&#039;&gt;Gas Prices Are Down But Are They Tied To The Elections?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ StarL  It&#8217;s interesting that you bring up the issue of being ridiculed bc your decision to teach.  I am considering opening up a holistic Montessori program/preschool/daycare because it&#8217;s something I have always ALWAYS wanted to be involved in.  But I didnt want to become a teacher because it doesnt pay well and because of potential scrutiny of that decision.</p>
<p>And this statement was especially on point:  <i>&#8220;As for society, I think we should educate society to be more respectful, tolerant and accepting about the changes that human beings, (women in particular) go through&#8221;</i></p>
<p><em>Ginger&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://www.girlsjustwannahavefunds.com/2008/10/gas-prices-are-down-but-are-they-tied-to-the-elections/'>Gas Prices Are Down But Are They Tied To The Elections?</a></em></p>
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